Sex-Positive Education & Coaching

Own Your
Desires.
Freely.

Kinky & Conscious offers coaching, workshops, and courses for adults — and couples — ready to explore kink with intention, safety, and deep self-awareness.

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Los Angeles, CA
Safe & Consent-First
400+ People Worked With
In-Person & Virtual
About

When the Kinky
are also Conscious…

Kink done consciously is a powerful path leading to self-discovery and closer connections.

Because kink done consciously is about more than technique. It's about you, and the partners you share with, knowing yourselves well enough to ask for what you truly want — and being able to receive it. That's why we're here.

Our work creates a grounded, shame-free space to explore the full landscape of your desires — with education, real skill-building, and genuine care.

"It's love that truly binds us. The binds just set us free." — Bad Wolf
Meet the Team
400+
People Worked With
12
Different Workshops
3
Expert Facilitators
Work With Us

How We Can
Explore Together

Every offering is built around your pace, your desires, and your growth edge — whether you're coming alone or with a partner.

01
Private Sessions

Private sessions to explore your desires, work through shame and blocks, and build a conscious kink practice that's fully and authentically yours.

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03
The BDSM Experience

Step inside The Playfully Yours Dungeon — a fully equipped, guided hands-on experience where you learn, connect, and play in a safe, supported space.

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For Couples & Partners

Deepen What
You Share

Exploring kink as a couple isn't just about adding something new — it's about going somewhere deeper together. When we communicate our real desires, what we build isn't just a better sex life. It's a stronger, more honest and fulfilling relationship.

  • Navigate desires, boundaries, and power dynamics together
  • Build a shared kink vocabulary and framework
  • Build real BDSM skills in a guided, intentional, shame-free space
  • Reignite intimacy
  • Work through mismatched libidos or curiosity gaps
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Testimonials

Words from the Community

Real voices. Real transformation.

★★★★★

"Thank you for making our wedding night so special! Our floggassage was an unforgettable experience. We're excited to see what the future may hold."

Queen & Thumper
Playfully Yours Dungeon, 2022
★★★★★

"This was by far one of the most fun events I've ever been to! We made new friends, learned some fun techniques! We will definitely be coming back!"

David & Maya
Spanking & Impact Workshop, 2024
★★★★★

"Thank you for creating such a safe and supportive environment to explore and play in. Your passion and care was very clear. Please keep up the amazing work!"

Elena (Disco)
Intro to Kink/BDSM, 2023
Common Questions

You asked. We answered.

Do I need any prior experience with kink or BDSM?

Not at all. Whether you're completely new to kink or have years of experience, our work meets you where you are. We offer beginner-friendly classes, foundational private sessions, and advanced exploration — all in the same shame-free environment.

What does a private coaching session look like?

Private sessions are tailored entirely to you. We start with a conversation about your desires, questions, and boundaries, then build a path forward — whether that's skill-building, exploring a dynamic, working through blocks, or deepening your self-awareness as an erotic being.

Are your workshops in person or virtual?

Both. We host in-person workshops and dungeon experiences in Los Angeles, CA, and offer virtual classes for clients across the US and beyond. Check our schedule for upcoming events.

Is this work right for couples?

Absolutely. Many of our clients are couples exploring kink together for the first time, or partners who want to deepen an existing dynamic. Our couples work is specifically designed to build shared language, trust, and real skills — together.

Is everything confidential?

Yes. Your privacy is sacred to us. Everything shared in private sessions is completely confidential, and we never share client information. Our community spaces are held with the same standard of discretion.

How is this different from a typical sex therapist or coach?

We are kink-aware practitioners — not just kink-friendly. We bring deep firsthand knowledge of BDSM dynamics, power exchange, and conscious sexuality to our work. You won't spend your session explaining what a flogger is or defending your desires.